NOTHING COMPARES TO RAISING CHILDREN IN DAVAO, NOTHING COMPARES TO COCA-COLA


When I got married in 1999, I was at some point certain I can be a good wife but I wasn’t really sure whether I can be a good mother or we can be good parents. I understand parenthood is something that involves enormous amount of sacrifice, sensible amount of money, an undivided attention, much of our time, emotional energy and a good working social and cultural environment to make this discourse work.

Just like any typical parent who wants nothing but the best for their children we did consider migrating to other country whose incidence to positive child-rearing was high. We have overflowing points at that time to qualify for migration being my husband a computer programmer and me, a teacher, but we forego of the opportunity after my father-in-law died and after lengthy family matter considerations.

Shortly after we’ve pronounced our decision, Davao City bagged the Most Child-Friendly City in the Philippines. I wasn’t surprised because ever since the Children’s Welfare Code of 1994 was passed, the local government of this city has been working to champion the cause of the children. It’s actually a long overdue recognition and it was well worth it, the city was awarded not once, twice but thrice this year as a Most Child-Friendly City in the country,  we then decided - let’s just stay home and raise our kids here.
I’d like to believe that we’ve made a good decision to stay and raise our kids here, as Davao City has provided us the infrastructure to upholding the rights of our children and has given us an overwhelming opportunity of work so we can steward them to become good and productive citizens of this country.

Vital to children’s growth and development is their health and nutrition and providing varied nutritious food to my children posed no problem at all, Davao City markets are blessed to have the freshest fruits, vegetables, sea foods and other meat products that are so affordable every parent of all stature can afford, there is no reason for a growing child in this city to be less nourished. 



This factor is further enhanced by the passing of the landmark law, Comprehensive Anti-Smoking Ordinance in 2002, this gained Davao City various citations from all over the world being the first 100-percent smoke-free metropolitan in Southeast Asia and no one I think will disagree that a smoke-free environment is imperative to growing healthy and well children, not to mention it’s the cleanest and greenest city in the country. 

Education is a prime factor to raising dynamic children. Davao City hosts a number of high-performing schools in the country, not to mention they’re just minute-drive away from our homes. We also have a lot of educational facilities and activities that promote culture, arts, entertainment and sports in the city – Special mention the two museums - Museo Dabawenyo, Museum of Davao in Insular Village which my kids frequent, Cinematheque Davao, which after knowing they can watch movie for free, have been whining to come over and over again, and who can’t miss out our Kadayawan Festival which is a very rich venue for our growing children to catch sight of our abounding and diverse cultural community unique only to our city.





Experts say, all study and not play makes a kid dull. Oh well, as the recognition asserts that Davao City is the Most Child-Friendly City in the country, we have all the accessible social and vibrant economic infrastructures to settle this. Davao City is the only city in the country where you can enjoy life both the tranquility of the highlands, the bustling lights and sounds of the lowlands, the pristine beaches and white sand in just a day. 

Let’s start from the highlands, there are countless mountain resorts in the city today, your choice of accommodation and one of the places I bring my kids to chill out and allow them to shout their hearts out is Eden Nature Park, I find it a perfect place to wind down for children who’s now beginning to live with their iPads and HDTVs. It’s the best place to interact and see in flesh the real flying peacock, slide the rope and let them see a real deer grazing; it’s like a Science field trip and a week-end camp out rolled into one. 


 Makakurat  baya mutubag ug question sa mga bata, labi na kung wala jud ka kabalo sa tubag;

‘Ma, why is Mt. Apo not erupting yet?’ 

‘What?’

But as parents it is our duty to process this, ‘God only knows’, yeah, safe answer I guess for someone who doesn’t know too what the answer is. But the other point is that we encourage creative and relaxed environment for their learning which is a very available resource in this city.

The beach in the lowland is my kids’ ultimate city break destination; they can stay here like until forever. I tell you, my patience here is really tested to some crazy levels and to a point where you can’t do nothing anymore but Coke-chill yourself and finger-lick a sack of Cheetos while gluing your eyes on the water.


And on some tight occasions where there’s no time to prepare for the beach, there are countless inland resorts in the city where you can bring your kids to unwind.





Davao City is also a convenient major hub to flying to other key cities in the country and the world; you can take your kids out of the city with no hassle at all, well, except for flight delays. Traveling does more to their learning than paying a tutor to learning Physics, how airplanes fly and an exciting adventure for them to learn how other people in other places live their lives. Nothing compares to listening to their stories about their trip while sending them to sleep. And all the more reason for me to work hard so I’ll have something for the next booking, geeeez!


Vital to a person’s holistic development is establishing a core of their spirituality. Davao City is a free and boundless city to practicing diverse religious activity. Parents with their children from all walks of life can practice their kind of religiosity in the city without being cuffed or fear of getting imprisoned, unless they go beyond what this city’s social more and law prescribed. 




My children grow up so fast and that they’re now finding a unique style of their own. My eldest son who is now in his 8th  grade seldom go out with us anymore, not even in pictures, he’s now having a circle of his own – an adolescent stage where having a lot of mood swings and a lot of his social issues are being raised out. But I’m confident that with the values we seed in them that would be their guiding bough to bear good fruits in the future. I also would commend the efforts of the city authorities that worked so hard to free this city from illegal drugs that in so doing would save our youth from danger.

I’m attesting to this common notion that raising children these days is harder than any parent could have thought easy before, but I bank on the idea that this social function can be as rewarding if parents will work hand-in-hand to raising  compassionate children and who believe in the means of their government that works to uphold the rights of the children that works to provide a good quality environment to nurture their skills and talents which in the long run a productive and vital component to building a strong, solid yet benevolent nation.

I understand that not all children in this city have the same, if I may say privileged circumstance as my children, but what is important is that we see the government of Davao City has worked to leaving a legacy of outmost optimism and a policy that upholds and protects the rights and brought in the torch of willpower to better the lives of every children in this city. 

I remember my mother once said to me, to teach my children 20 years before they were born. I’d like to believe we’re doing this now for the good of our children’s children.

Commendation also goes to the vibrant corporate community of this city; they’ve provided opportunities to many parents and would-be ones that in return will have the means to raise their children. 

And at the end of the day, nothing beats a family that goes home to a happy, story-laughter-filled dinner nga gi-ubanan sa iced cold Coca-Cola. 


And as to my hesitations whether I can be good a parent? 15 years after, I found my parenting niche, just like the three-fold guiding principle of Coca-Cola to be innovative, I’m working on my parenting strategies as innovative as possible – a kind of raising children that is still anchored on the values and traditions of the past but keeping abreast with the development as to where this city and this country is heading. 

Another is to be creative. Creative parenting is not new to me; in fact, I just bought a double XL shirt as my creative ‘get-along shirt’ for my kids to settle their issues before they’ll raise it up to me.

And lastly, focus. Just like Coca-Cola who works and focus on unique ideas that impacts the saturated marketplace, this lowly parent on the other hand works on eliminating distortions – gadgets, TV, etc. and trimming it down so we all can hit our targets and get it done. 

I’m certain I’ve got the handle of it and have never regretted we’ve stayed in Davao as … 

Nothing compares to raising children in Davao City, nothing compares to Coca-Cola, #WalayKaparehas.


23 comments

  1. Davao Rocks and the way you describe it is just wonderful! Love the family photos!

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    1. HI Rose, thanks for the visit, you can say it's really wonderful, you can have Davao your first stop when coming back home. see you.

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  2. you described Davao so wonderfully Verns I would want to move there, seriously, it has almost all the amenities to raise a family healthily. I would love a life like that, a balance of outdoors ( mountains and oceans), city, fresh healthy foods, and more. As to your patience with your kids at the beach, you reminded me of me and my late mom back when i was probably the same age as your kids, I won't leave the beach, if I hear my nanay telling tatay we have to leave, I would run to the water and hide under, haha. I hold my breath as long as I could, only come out when I need to, so that I could pretend I did not hear her when she was looking for me. Of course, she would see me eventually, but then, she had to get wet and swim again in order to get me, remembering that, I really really appreciate the greatness of our parents and parents such as you!

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    1. HI Betchai, hahaha ikaw din pala nung bata, akala ko yung akin lang, lol.

      thanks for the awesome words, hope you can visit us soon :)

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  3. I heard so many things about Davao.. in fact my family went there for a 4day vacay 2 yrs ago.. sayang d ako sumama nagsisi tuloy ako!! Anyway, there's always a next time.. hope to visit Davao and experience the place, food etc....

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    1. Hi Jenny, of course there's always time, let me know when you're coming, maybe we could meet up :) thanks for the drop.

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  4. Ma'am Vern, this is such a beautiful post! I miss Davao a lot na. I have only spent over 4 years there (1996-2000) during my high school years and yet, I still will call it one of my homes. And your photos? You just made my eyes sweat a bit! Davao is indeed a beautiful place!

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    1. Rcel, I wonder when you're coming back home, but when you do, you should visit back.... it's not the same anymore, though Mayor Duterte is still the same, hihihi.. Salamat Cel sa laag.

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  5. Mommy Verns! I love your wala'y kaparehas sa pagpadako sa mga bata here in Davao. Ang values ng mga kids :)

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    1. Thanks Algene for dropping by, yeah, just like you, hihi, thanks for dropping by.

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  6. Very nice post I know Davao by the beach name Dakak. I always want to go there hopefully someday. My favorite commercial of Coca Cola when Nikki Gil sings the jingle :) so refreshing

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    1. Hi sis, thank you for dropping by, I think Dakak is somewhere around Dapitan, maybe you meant Samal.

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  7. point-blank, i admit - i was not a good mother to my kid when i was in the philippines. i partied too much. but it changed when we came here stateside..i became the motherly mother that i never though i would be...

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    1. Hi Ting, thanks for the drop. Glad to hear that, on the other hand, I'm thinking whether I can also be a good one when we pushed with our A plan. See you around.

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  8. I so love the tagline...awesome photos teVernz!

    oh, my it's been awhile...miss you te! I think I've been missing out a lot...wa na jud tawon ko kag rampa...uwahi nako sa mga updates...ehhehe...hope all is well teVernz!

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    1. Hello Demcy, salamat kaayo sa laag. no you haven't missed you anything... hihihi, me that I have to catch up a lot. hahaha, see you.

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  9. Ang ganda naman ng tagline ng Coca Cola. If only, wifey is able to deliver one more kid, then it will be 'Made in Davao'.

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    1. Wahahahaha, Papaleng, why not coconut, sure, I can be a virtual Ninang, hahaha ikaw talaga, sige see you in Davao! Thanks for the visit.

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  10. Your post makes me miss Davao :) I lived there for 7 months way back in 2007 and would have loved to stay on. God bless you more and your family as you continue to thrive in Davao :) And yes, cheers to our favorite drink, too!

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    1. HI Sis, anytime you can always come back, let me know when you're in town. thanks for the visit sis :)

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  11. I miss Davao. I lived there for two years, and for me, it's definitely one of my favorite places in the world! Great post and photos of your family, Verns!

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    1. Hello Raya, waaahhhh, we had rarely time catching up online Raya dear. Sige lang time will come will see each other again here once more big time. Thanks Day Raya for the laag :) God Bless you and your family.

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  12. Ug walay kaparehas ang mga inahan sa davao, pinaga-on, ug mapagbigay (bisaya??)... walay kaparehas sa Coca-cola.

    Hay kanus-a pa kaha ko maka sulat ug ingon ani.. tudlui ko Vernz.. :)

    maayo unta ma publish ni... the other day, sige'g error..:(

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